Don’t Refuse God’s Comfort.


“A voice was heard in Ramah, weeping and loud lamentation, Rachel weeping for her children; she refused to be comforted, because they are no more.”   Matthew 2:18

This verse is also found in Jeremiah. Matthew says it was the fulfillment of a prophecy of when Herod killed the little children in Bethlehem, after hearing of the birth of Jesus, “the king of the Jews.” He wanted to make sure there was no king but him.

The mothers of these children refused to be comforted.

I don’t remember what book I read where the author quoted this and said they could have been comforted by God, but refused.

I’d never thought about what that verse meant, besides a great sorrow. The author said we must allow God to comfort us because if we don’t, sin will follow. I believe he is right.

Right now, in my family, there is a lot of sorrow and grief. My youngest sister’s friend is dying of cervical cancer, my daughter’s mother-in-law is in the hospital with lung cancer, my older sister’s son committed suicide last fall, my grandson is suffering from depression, my mother has colon cancer, my youngest granddaughter has Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and is in great mental pain, which is giving her mother deep emotional pain.

If we don’t allow God to comfort us and walk through this with us, we will start asking, “Why us?”  “Why me?”  We could become bitter and angry. We could begin to blame and hate God, who has allowed all this to happen and put us in such a terrible world.

Yesterday, when I heard my granddaughter was feeling worse, I felt so burdened and sad. I remembered this verse and told God I wanted his comfort. I needed his comfort. I receive his comfort by prayer, reading the Psalms and remembering what Jesus suffered.

This I know. God has not asked us to go through anything he has not gone through.

“For as we share abundantly in Christ’s sufferings, so through Christ we share abundantly in comfort too.”  2 Corinthians 1:5

“Now if we are children, then we are heirs–heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.”  Romans 8:17

“But rejoice insofar as you share Christ’s sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad when his glory is revealed.”  1 Peter 4:13

“I want to know Christ–yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death.”    Philippians 3:10

“…and our hope for you is firmly grounded, knowing that as you are sharers of our sufferings, so also you are sharers of our comfort.”   2 Corinthians 1:7







11 thoughts on “Don’t Refuse God’s Comfort.

  1. Wow! So sad! God will continue to comfort you ALL in Jesus Mighty Name! You and your entire family will be in my prayers! God is GREAT! He will bring you out of this storm. Weeping endureth for a night but joy cometh in the morning! God bless and much love! Xxoo 🙏💯💖

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  2. Great post. I have a friend who used to attend our church. He held a big, gorgeous wedding last year with his gf of 6+ years, but because of something she evidently did, they are already separated. Another friend who keeps up with him says he is resentful. I will keep this in the back of my mind when I try to reconnect with him.

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  3. The picture that comes to mind, is of God ‘wrapping his arms’ around us ‘wrapping our arms’ around those who are hurting.
    – Thank Heavens that Gods arms are open wide…
    Remembering you, and those you mention….

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  4. Great Post! The biggest test for us is when we are in our worst situations. It is very easy to seek relief in the waiting arms of sin. It isn’t really comfort, but it is a distraction from the pain.

    I had an uncle who would respond to any mention of pain with “Want me to stomp on your foot?” I’d reply when I was younger, “How is that going to help”. He’d say, “well you won’t feel that other pain anymore.”

    Sin is like that, it’s a convenient and always available distraction. May God bless you and your family with peace and improved health.

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